Perspective I

19 07 2013

While I was trying to channel my anger into something constructive, I ran into a bunch of pictures in a feature by FSTOPPERS on Tom Hussey’s Reflections. It’s an eye opening look at the elderly staring back at a reflection of their younger selves. Hussey has a great portfolio on his website and you can see the entire collection here.

This something I ponder about a fair bit, in conjunction with reflections on Death, partly because that seems to be the next stage.  I’m surrounded by the elderly at work, so I am rather surprised/ashamed that I haven’t had the Old Age and Death conversation with anyone. Perhaps it’s the language barrier, perhaps I’m just caught up with the routine. I’ll do that the next time I see someone who might be willing.

That’s probably me in 40+years. If I live that long.



The Spectre of Death

4 02 2012

Death and The Maiden, c1908. I saw this painting on display when Musee D’Orsay brought selected pieces from its collection to SAM


One morning, I was walking past a cubicle in the wards. There was someone wailing inside. Usually there is a nameplate with the patient’s name on it, but it wasn’t there outside this door. I remembered her name though. I had seen her yesterday. I kept walking till I reached the nursing counter. There was a pad of forms, the first one was half filled. It was a Death Certificate. I wasn’t entirely shocked. The old lady had taken a turn for the worst, yet there was something … final and conclusive to the event. It was a mixture of sorrow and relief.

I used to imagine that there is this Spectre of Death walking, moving around the wards. Watching every move that happens and occasionally sniggering when doctors try too hard to save someone from the jaws of death. I sometimes imagine the spectre following me around the wards and sometimes having his eye on the patient I’m supposed to see. Theoretically, that image is very symbolic. Every time you go around meeting and examining patients, there is a very real risk that you will catch, and pass on some bug which might eventually kill someone. Which is why we disinfect our hands, twice for every patient.

I think I have an ironic imagination. A hospital, we imagine is almost a safe zone where we go to cheat death. Just the other day, while we were walking back home, I expressed concern that the traffic is unforgiving and we should be extra careful. My buddy quickly retorted, “Don’t worry, you’re just outside the emergency department” and smiled. The truth is that the hospital isn’t a safe zone, people die there all the time. Medicine cannot save everyone.

I also find that we pity terminally ill patients. I think concern and sensitivity and wanting to alleviate suffering is warranted, but not pity. Pity, at least the way I see it, carries this epistemic arrogance that the patient is going to die while I live, which though probable and likely, ignores the fact that you might be the one having an accident while crossing the road. The patient is fairly safe in the ward. In fact the next day, the patient might be the one in shock, “Oh! What a pity, that was a fabulous doctor. So sad to hear of his death”. Be careful.

The ECG strip of someone who’s heart beats then stops, never to start again. (From some website)

I recall another time when I was with my mentor in the ICU. ICU cubicles have these big windows so doctors and nurses can look inside and keep an eye on the monitors. This particular one had the curtains drawn up. On the desk just outside was a long strip of ECG paper. It looked blank, but on looking closely, you notice it’s a flat line. Missing the usual energetic spikes from a living heart. In the adjacent cubicle, was a newborn. In one cubicle, the end of life, in another, the beginning. You sit there and think. You fill up the gaps in between, how does a newborn turn into a deceased old lady? How was I born, how have I lived, how will I die? It is not something that I consciously thought about but my mind wandered in that direction.

Eventually, you cannot avoid the ultimate question, what happens after I die? Everyone seems to have an answer for that. You will go to heaven or you will get another body or  you will cease to exist. People also seem to offer ways of influencing the specific postmortem (as in after death, not the autopsy) outcomes. Do this and you will go to heaven, do that and you will be born in a great family. As much as I think it’s an important question to think about, I don’t think are are definitive answers. As scary as that is, we need to come to terms with that. Since we do not know what the future holds, the important question becomes, what do we do now? Yet that message is often lost in routines and stupid, boring jobs and pretentious responsibilities.

I spent the last week in Palliative Medicine, learning to look after patients with terminal illness. We had a segment on breaking bad news and helping patients plan for their last days. It’s a sensitive moment that needs compassion, clarity, time and a lot of emotional poise on your part. There is something about the painting at the top of the post that makes it so appropriate. It’s a sort of Angel placing a comforting wing around the girl. A hand sticking out, saying, “Wait, listen to me, clearly”. There’s a lamp there to provide clarity. Sure, death isn’t fantastic news, but it’s a natural essential process. You are born, you die. It’s simple. A character from Murakami’s Norwegian Wood remarks “Death exists, not as opposite, but as a part of life”. The important point they tried to hammer into us in school was that you can only help people come to terms with their death, when you come to terms with mortality, both in general, and specifically your mortality.  The way I see it, when the time comes, I am supposed to step up to the role as the harbringer of bad news, yet still be the comforter (not just chemically), the one who brings clarity and perhaps some hope. After doing palliative medicine, I have realised, I AM the Angel of Death.